We would like to acknowledge a few of the many thoughtful kindnesses shown our loved one in the past few years. On her behalf and on behalf of the elderly everywhere, we thank you.

— The medical community who listens and suggests common sense solutions to the problem of the day. A valued blessing to us all!

— Caregivers, both paid and volunteer, who sit ever so patiently while the food is eaten without benefit of teeth that are so carefully placed in the pocket.

— Social invitations that unfailingly include the entire household. This means the conversation will, at times, make absolutely no sense.

— The many who have stepped off the sidewalk to clear the chosen walking path. This included the teenagers!

— Picnic tables that are shared, or relinquished, as it is the furthest the elderly can walk that day.

— Manicurists who perform their careful task, knowing full well the nails will be marred before they leave the shop, once again. The customer’s ever so important sense of personal care and neatness remains intact for another week.

— The mismatched shoes, uneven lipstick or ill-combed hair that are acknowledged by eye contact and otherwise ignored, helping to preserve personal dignity.

— Restaurant personnel who, with a knowing smile, continue the special service as if eating soup with the fingers or fork is usual.

— Adult-care personnel who with loving hands, calm voice and professional competence let us know all things are under control.

— The simple faith of the very young. “Grandma I just know there are halos and I bet Nana has seen one.”

It takes a community to care for the elderly and their caregivers. We are profoundly grateful and every so blessed to live among you.

The family of Erma Hyde